How can a woman find love?
A great question on a social topic: “How to find love? Many people can’t find a life partner for years and don’t even know where to look. Do you even need to do something for this, or should you rely on fate? “Note that it is written “satellite”, not “companion”. A girl is looking for a man. I’ll try to answer it. I was hooked on a few things.
I know that many women have been trying to find a life partner for years, and they don’t even know where to look. I also know that many women have decided to rely on fate. Absolutely stunning, smart, beautiful, capable, earn their own money, with apartments and cars, not harmful, love to cook, affectionate, want to take care of a man … and for years, sometimes decades, they can not find their man. It’s true: for many women, this is a big problem. I will state my brief point of view on this issue.
Three reasons why it is difficult for women to find a life partner.
The first reason why you can’t find a life partner for years is that there are statistically fewer men than women.
The second reason is that men degrade much faster than women. And if you take, for example, the age of 20-25 years: normal girls and normal guys are about the same number. But if we look at the age of 40 years, then at the age of 45, there are much less normal men than normal women. Men degrade faster. This is due to alcohol, cigarettes, and many other factors.
The third reason why it becomes much more difficult for women to find a companion after 30-40 years is very banal. I’ve talked to a lot of unmarried ladies about this. I will say this: dear ladies, you are becoming too picky. Too picky. You usually say, ” No, I’m not looking for a prince, I understand that there are no perfect ones»… And immediately add: “But I would like him to not drink alcohol at all, not to smoke, because I can’t stand the smell of cigarettes” … One lady added: “I would like to have a status. To be a business owner.” I thought to myself: “Well, that’s it, we’ve arrived…” Just now this woman said that she has no special requirements… And at the same time, he continues to add: “I would like him to be without a belly and look sporty.” She’s in her 40s, looking for a 50-year-old. Of course, I also want men to look beautiful, athletic, without wrinkles, etc. at the age of 50. Where to get them – that’s the question?!
These reasons can be listed ad infinitum. Do you know what these reasons amount to as a result? One beautiful and clever girl can’t find a man for years… the other is plain, plump, giggly: just got divorced – immediately got married…
I have a friend who is about to turn 51. A stunning woman, married for the fourth time. She told me: “God save me from getting married for the fifth time. I don’t want. Need to go out for the fifth time? Easy! The sixth time? No question! The men are standing in line.” She’s 50, looks pretty good, but she’s basically just an ordinary woman.
Your conclusions and decisions affect your behavior style.
The reasons why some women have been looking for a man for decades and can’t find him are in your conclusions, in your decisions. Your conclusions and your decisions affect your style of behavior. You don’t even notice it. Many of you are not even women, not from the point of view of physiology. Many of you are not women in terms of the aura that surrounds you. The aura that surrounds you is a self-sufficient asexual unit, able to provide itself with everything and everything, not needing male protection and male affection. You look coldly at the men around you, you push them away with a single glance. When they approach your aura, they realize that they have nothing to catch. After all, men also tend to devalue themselves: “Oh, I probably am not worthy of her…” I talked to one lady, she agreed: “Yes, it is so. But he had to be strong enough to come up and take me by the tuft, and I would know right away that I was in the hands of a real man. Then I will immediately collapse, become sweet and easy-going, a real chick and a sweetheart. He has to get over it.” Well, well … for 12 years, this lady’s men are trying to “overcome it”: so far, no one has overcome it, although the woman is amazing.
The main thing is the aura.
This is not all. I am not a member of dating sites, there is no such need: I have an amazing wife, for whom I am ready to pray. Probably, those women who post their photos on a dating site do not hope for fate anymore. In my environment, there are no women who have registered on such sites. I’m surrounded by a lot of women who think that the lover must come from somewhere, and he must find her somewhere! Where will he find you, my dear? You sat in the subway, plugged your ears with headphones (if you go on public transport). You have a glassy look in the subway. If someone even looks at you and tries to talk – you look at him as an enemy of the people, and the guy then understands that he probably did something illegal. If you walk down the street, you get a compliment-you throw another look that will make anyone flinch. You come to the office and have to work: in the office, we should not have novels, but work. I drove home from the office with a glassy look. And he must find you… How?
Or another option. You left the apartment, got in the car. Take in the car at least a sign with the inscription:”If I, a blonde, put the car in the wrong place, then you, please, call me on the phone.” It seems that this is not a reason for dating, but the sign says that you are a blonde and, it seems, do not get acquainted, the phone is left just for the situation if you parked the car in the wrong place.
When you are standing in traffic and a man opens the window in his car and winks at you, you do not have to inflate your face and turn away. Have you been insulted by being looked at? You’re going to get married! Open the glass, ask: “Married?» He’ll say, “Well…” then, ” Go to hell, you asshole!” What if he’s single? Then tell him: “Quickly remember your phone number! Call me tonight!» Do something for this, my dear women! But the main thing is the aura, which I wrote about above. Aura! It’s hard to put it into words.
A woman should be a woman.
Personally, I feel the real women who can become good wives, mothers, mistresses, skin. They have a different beingness, they are made of a different dough, they are different… We men, without realizing it, feel these real women. She may be a giggly fat girl, but I’ll go after her because she’s a woman. I will go for her, not for that beauty, because in that beauty I do not feel a woman. I feel a certain “terminal”. What will I do with this “terminal”? There are enough” Terminals ” among the men. But I’m talking about myself, about my feelings. It is the aura that determines everything. You can be a productive woman at work, producing a huge amount of the right product and the right results for your company, but you are also a woman, and everyone will feel that you are a woman, and not a robot in a skirt. So change your conclusions, change the aura around you, and do not wait for fate: you will not wait. Create your own destiny, dear ladies.
And if a man is looking for love? If a man is looking for love and can not find a woman, then it is not a man, because a man has never had problems with women, there is no and can not be. All that a man needs to do is to allow the women to line up in a queue and choose the right candidate from this queue. So, gentlemen men, if you can’t find your love for years, become a man. I am ready to see after this article thousands of reviews that I am a complete asshole, idiot, goat and bastard… Once again I repeat: if you are not married, and you do not have a queue – become a man, and the queue will appear.