10 signs he doesn’t love you anymore.
Even the happiest relationships can come to an end. If you start to notice that your boyfriend’s attitude to you has changed, even though it is only shown in small things, then do not deceive yourself, trust your reason and intuition. Psychology is designed so that you will completely deny the obvious, just not to hear the disappointing truth from your partner. We have collected 10 proofs for you that you are no longer loved as before, so that you can make the right decision about your relationship.
- He doesn’t answer your calls and texts.
A classic sign that your boyfriend is losing interest in your relationship is ignoring it. He may be busy all day or his phone runs out of battery too quickly, but not answering your inbox means that he avoids contact with you, and communication has ceased to bring him pleasure. The best solution is to talk to your boyfriend in person, and in the meantime stop forcing your attention on him, because if he did not find a couple of minutes to answer you or write first, then it’s time for eloquent silence on your part.
- He answers in monosyllables.
Have you ever noticed that the question “How are you?” or any interest in his person from your side receives a monosyllabic answer that does not imply mutual curiosity? If so, you have a problem. In the absence of conflicts and fresh quarrels, this behavior can mean one thing: he does not want to talk to you and, instead of immediately revealing his cards, thinks that you are either so stupid that you will take his terse words for communication, or you will guess that he does not care about you.
- He cancels the plans.
You agreed to go to the movies, but he has sudden things to do, like meeting friends or plans that he doesn’t talk about openly with you. You invited him to visit, and he didn’t even show up, without warning or further explanation. Does he always have excuses that keep you from spending time together? He just doesn’t want to, but he can’t tell you directly.
- He doesn’t care about the guys you hang out with.
Relationships are built on trust, and manipulating a guy’s feelings, trying to make him jealous — is disrespectful and low. But on the other hand, jealousy, or at least the surprise on your boyfriend’s face if you accidentally mention someone else, is a natural reaction for someone who has feelings.
- He doesn’t keep you informed.
In a relationship, it’s natural to share your day’s experiences and let your partner know if you have grand plans for life. If you feel that your partner is closing off from you, while you were not noticed in inattention and passivity, then this means that he does not want to commit himself, and this most often leads to a breakup.
- He spends more time on the phone than with you.
We spend a lot of time on phones and browsing social networks, but if we are talking about a loved one, then the choice between you and the Instagram feed should not stand. Often, going to the phone means that the guy is bored with you or he does not want to pay attention to you. It’s not a reason to break up, but you should definitely talk to him about his detachment.
- He talks about other women.
If your boyfriend discusses other girls in your presence, whether with friends or specifically with you, then you have every moral right to feel outraged. Especially if it’s about someone you don’t know. Let’s say he tells you about how a girl approached him to meet, or there are several employees at work who show him signs of attention. This situation has two explanations: a) he is trying to make you jealous, and this is manipulation; b)he is hinting to you that the world has not converged on your person, and this is a real pig.
- Physical contact leaves much to be desired.
If you used to hug, kiss and surprise each other in bed, now you hardly touch each other, and often without his desire. This indicates that you are in a crisis. If you do not doubt your feelings, then start paying attention to the hints that your boyfriend leaves. The reluctance of physical intimacy may indicate that he no longer wants it with you or already has it with someone else.
- He treats you like a friend.
If your status in a relationship has suddenly changed, then there is no reason to doubt-he is no longer interested in you as much as before. There is no flirting, romance, love and physical intimacy — you are in the friend zone. For a long-term relationship, this process is not so natural, since over time, the passion may subside, and love will manifest itself in a different way.
- He gets angry for no reason.
Being annoyed for no particular reason is a sign that your boyfriend isn’t satisfied around you. And this does not mean that you have to go out of your way to please him — on the contrary, pay attention to what exactly makes your boyfriend angry. What wasn’t annoying before is now driving him crazy, leaving you wondering and wondering what you did wrong. The most difficult thing is that it is very difficult to talk constructively with an angry person, because he may not understand why he reacts so much to familiar things.